Therapeutic ApproacH

Clinical orientation

Every person as an underlying set of beliefs that govern their decisions and motivations. As a prospective client, it is important to understand my Philosophy and Clinical Orientation to make sure we are a good match.

Clinical orientation, sometimes simplified to “style,” can lead to make or break chemistry in the therapeutic relationship. I have been called “a simple mind for complex times.” Though initially sounding harsh, I take it as quite a compliment. In a profession often characterized as a pseudo-science and accused of having of much theory, less application, and fewer successes, I am glad to be practical. My style is eclectic, or in layman’s terms: “a blend.” I have a “whatever works” approach that stems from many theoretical interests, multiple converging philosophies, and diverse experiences from which to draw for any given problem. I move between them freely. To force a client into a specific theory/style/orientation seems both unfair and presumptuous, and goes against my philosophy of the client as expert. One area where I do not waiver is my insistence upon accountability. People have the power create their desired life only to the extent that they hold themselves responsible for its current state. This is difficult for many to accept, but without this component they are but victims in a world full of willing perpetrators. I come to each session with the awareness of a person’s power to create meaningful change and a hope that I will be able to witness and assist them in obtaining the desired quality of life.

Principles

  • Power and potential for change. I believe that there is no shelf life of ability to change nor is there some limited amount available to each of us. We are continually faced with challenges and opportunities to grow and become stronger and more effective or, regress and become self defeating. It is in recognizing our responsibility for our present experience that we become empowered to move from victim to active force for change.
  • Client is the expert in our relationship. You will know far more about yourself than I will ever know. My role is simply to help you find the truths that you, on some level, already know. I am not in the business of advice, manipulation, or control. Furthermore, I am no measure of perfection thus cannot judge my ideals, behaviors, or beliefs as superior enough to impose them on anyone.
  • People do the best they can given their resources, understanding, and awareness. Few of us consciously decide to make poor decisions, injure those we love, and sabotage opportunities for success. Even fewer are “bad people,” but rather good people making poor decisions. We tend to make what seems to be the best decisions possible at the given moment with our limited information and experience. This is an important philosophical cornerstone as it allows me to suppress judgment and blame and immediately begin looking toward current strengths and potential for change while using past experiences as a guide.
  • Patterns and programs. To be overly simplified, our brains are organic computers. If you examine closely there are patterns in everything in our existence. Science confirms and artists expand upon this idea readily. We seem to continue the same paths, habits, and behaviors regardless if they are effective, pleasant, of even yielding our desired outcomes. Ever caught yourself playing out a “broken record” behavior or seeking out the same relationship with a different name but just could not seem to stop? Once our insight is raised and we are able to be mindful of our programs, we can accept ourselves and harness the power for change.
As a single footstep will not make a path on the earth, so a single thought will not make a pathway in the mind. To make a deep physical path, we walk again and again. To make a deep mental path, we must think over and over the kind of thoughts we wish to dominate our lives.
Henry David Thoreau